The Narc Decoder Understanding the Language of the Narcissist Tina Swithin 9780692644485 Books
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Divorcing a narcissist? You are probably left feeling baffled and shaken by the communication that you receive from the narcissist. In my mid-twenties, I contemplated learning multiple foreign languages. I envisioned dabbling in French to successfully make my way around Paris or Irish Gaelic to explore the rich history of Ireland along with my deep ancestral roots in that country. My day dreams about learning new languages always went hand in hand with the imagery of world travel. The thought of exploring exotic and old world places far away from home intrigued me. My mind summoned several foreign adventures, but never did I think I would need to learn a foreign language to navigate my own life. In 2008, I heard the words, “Narcissistic Personality Disorder” (NPD) to describe my then-husband, Seth. It took a couple years for the reality of those three little words to really sink in. Looking back, the red flags had been waving in the wind since our very first date. Those flags grew taller and more vibrant in color during our marriage. As it turns out, those same red flags that had been lining my path for years were dipped in a highly flammable mixture of kerosene. I realized the danger only when they exploded near the end of my marriage. Like any unexpected explosion, I was unprepared and left nursing deep, emotional, third-degree burns. In my research, I discovered a new language which took quite a bit of studying and insight on NPD to understand. As it turns out, the reason that I was so bewildered by Seth’s communication style was that we were speaking completely different languages. I spoke the English version of “human” while he was speaking the non-human “Narc-ish.” I am convinced there is a Narc-ish dictionary or manual hidden deep in a dark, musty hole somewhere in a faraway land with step-by-step instructions on how to inflict fear, confusion and despair. From this land, narcissists hail. Their secret language can only be decoded by those who aren’t fooled by the narcissist’s stealth ability to inflict confusion and chaos with it. My computer has a feature that allows me to translate most languages. However, this particular area of my life requires technology that is a bit savvier. Need is the catalyst of industry and I was in need of a device to decipher Narc-ish. So, I invented one. I call it the “Narc Decoder” and have made life-altering good use of it. The good news is, everyone has access to the Narc Decoder because it is a machine that I am honored to replicate and share with anyone who is forced to communicate with a narcissist. Once you understand how to use the Narc Decoder, your life will change for the better. You will become empowered and will regain your voice. Over time, you will begin to find humor in the communication style that once left you on your knees begging for mercy.
The Narc Decoder Understanding the Language of the Narcissist Tina Swithin 9780692644485 Books
Such a relief to decode the delusional rants and total BS that comes out of his head and be able to formulate a proper response. Removing yourself as the supply is priceless. This is the go-to first recommendation when I find someone else in a similar situation.Product details
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The Narc Decoder Understanding the Language of the Narcissist Tina Swithin 9780692644485 Books Reviews
Amazing book. Really gives amazing insite to what Narc's are after and the best way to respond. I highlighted half the book so I know this will be something I use over and over again!! Now to read the book on rebuilding. Thank you for all the work you have put into these Tina!
Tina's latest book is very real and raw. If you're a victim or survivor of narcissistic abuse, you will relate all too well to this book. Tina puts a hilarious spin on the prolific ramblings that narcissists spit out to their victims. Being on the receiving end of their verbal vomit is no easy feat. Tina's genius translator, makes it very easy and even fun to decipher what these evil beings are really communicating. A must read for anyone having to deal with a narcissist.
If you are going through a divorce or have to co-parent with a narcissist, this book will be very useful. It is from the victim's point of view and is dead-on ... can be helpful in understanding this underdiagnosed personality disorder (because a true narcissist would never believe their is anything at all wrong with them so why go to counseling). Tina is a bright light for those suffering with having to co-parent with a narcissist. I know this situation al too well.
This book is SO applicable!! Not only was it eerie reading such similar experiences but I appreciated that my situation wasn't quite as extreme. I find I'm able to read the character assassinations, I mean emails, I receive and can process them with the level of indifference they deserve. Tina doesn't just help you decipher the mess you've found yourself in but she gives real solutions, possible responses and suggested templates to help you maintain your sanity and decorum.
Amazing how I once thought I was all alone. Tina's life is my life. Exact same maniac that I married saying the exact same terrible things. Unbelievable. NPD plus a drunk! There should be some kind of immunization for narcissistic personality disorder. Obviously they are quite common in today's society. This book will ease your mind, make you laugh because you've been there and give you some really good comebacks that you can use against your "NPD." Good for the soul and mind!
Tina is an amazing person. There are many father's rights groups that bully this woman and her organization because they are Narcissists themselves. A Narcissist will never ever admit fault and take responsibility for anything that they do. That being said, I have read all of her books. I like that this is a short book so it does not take up a lot of time to read. The book is about how you should talk to a Narcissist if at all. It also explains how to understand or decode messages you receive from them. I highly recommend this book.
This is an amazing tool for learning when to respond, what the hidden messages are, and simply making sense of the madness that we live. It is a tool that gave me some sanity as I was in a place of feeling the need to continually defend myself in his rants against me. Even though I knew the writings were very deliberate lies and meant simply to cast a false light for the Judge and hurt me insidiously, I felt it may be believed if I didn't react. However, reading this book gave me some power back and allowed me to view things in a different light. Highly recommend. I also bought a copy for my Attorney and she's found it very helpful and enlightening. As an outside source who hasn't lived it, my attorney saw much more clearly the abuse that still continues today and both this book and Divorcing A Narcissist, have given my attorney such better insight to help her fight alongside me. Thank you Tina!
Such a relief to decode the delusional rants and total BS that comes out of his head and be able to formulate a proper response. Removing yourself as the supply is priceless. This is the go-to first recommendation when I find someone else in a similar situation.
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